There is a great line in one of the Marx Brother’s movie (Duck Soup)
Mrs. Teasdale: Your Excellency, I thought you'd left!
Chicolini: Oh no, I no leave.
Mrs. Teasdale: But I saw you with my own eyes!
Chicolini: Well, who you gonna believe, me or your own eyes?
Chicolini: Oh no, I no leave.
Mrs. Teasdale: But I saw you with my own eyes!
Chicolini: Well, who you gonna believe, me or your own eyes?
Within a family, a congregation, a friendships or marriages deception abounds. Sometimes you wonder if a relationship could survive a full disclosure of the truth. I think it is possible that all relationships, even relatively healthy ones have a measure of dishonesty. This is true especially if we consider any fact that is withheld as a deception. “How much did we pay for the couch?” “Do you really want to know?” “Lie to me.” “$500” “Good price.” Some folks respect the truth so much they really don’t want to wear it out through over use.
In the above story, King Saul is caught in a lie by Samuel, the prophetic priest. When you read this passage did you notice that Samuel is angry when he learned from God that Saul has disqualified himself and God will no longer recognize him as the king? Samuel has a sleepless night. Saul was a liar and an egoist – the two are often twin character flaws. Samuel catches Saul in a lie when the livestock Saul was commanded to destroy were making animal noises even while Saul is insisting they were dead.
If you want to become a man or woman of integrity and desire to be always truthful, I would suggest you begin with God. Tell the whole truth about your life, including exactly what you paid for that couch, or golf clubs, or shotgun, or whatever.
It is an awful hour when the first necessity of hiding anything comes. The whole life is different thenceforth. When there are questions to be feared and eyes to be avoided and subjects that must not be touched, then the bloom of life is gone.
Phillips Brooks (1835–1893)
Faces we see, hearts we know not.
Spanish Proverb
Half the work that is done in the world is to make things appear what they are not.
E. R. Beadle (1812–1879)
O what may a man within him hide,
Though angel on the outward side!
William Shakespeare (1564–1616)
When a rogue kisses you, count your teeth.
Hebrew Proverb
You k’n hide de fier, but what you guine do wid de smoke? [You can hide the fire, but what are you going to do with the smoke?]
Joel Chandler Harris (1848–1908)
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